It's like organising a wedding.

Putting my 21st birthday party together is milking dry my brain juice and giving me unneccesary stress.
First of all, the who-to-invite segment.

I don't plan to invite a lot of people; only close friends and family.

Another thing. I don't want to blow my budget (or my parents' budget) by inviting EVERYONE (even though I very much want to... sob sob). It doesn't help that my extended family is already like 25++ people.
Church friends (plentytoomanyalotcountless)+jc friends (10?)+university friends (about 8?)+family (25+) = about 60 people
WAAAAHH

Tell me what to do... where to find such a big place??!!
And catering for 60+ people...

Ya, congratulations Esther.

Should I just call it off?

I think maybe I should, and just have a good one with my extended family.
But the sociable, friendly side of me tells me that "Oh, but it's not as fun if your friends are not coming..."

Right. Brilliant.
So now what?

"In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. " - Proverbs 3:6

My good Lord, HELP!!!