When I was a child/teenager, when people say 讲钱伤感情, I didn't understand this fully.
Today, I experienced the meaning of this maxim.

Nope, I didn't borrow money from anyone and no one borrowed money from me.

My parting shot for this post?

If you want kinship and friendship, don't talk about lending money.
Give the money within your means.

In my course of life, I have seen relationships sour or become awkward as a result of money-lending/borrowing. Too many times.

I wish everyone was communist.